HC should remember the 'run' state of the server instances after crash or shutdown

The host controller should save which server is currently up and running. This would allow the host controller to bring up all previously running instances on a restart.

The idea is to support the same behavior that other application server (i.e WebLogic) supports.
If a server is started or stopped during the lifetime of the DC/HC it should be in the same state after shutdown the DC/HC or a system crash.

This can be achieved by an optional flag 'set-auto-start-on-start-stop' where the default is false which is the current behaviour.
If set to true, a start of the server instance will set auto-start=true and a stop auto-start=false.

If the server should not be started after a crash for any reason, this can be simple done by setting auto-start=false within the configuration, after starting the server the flag will be set b/c of the 'set-auto-start-on-start-stop' flag.