Create clean dependencies / separate boms

The teiid-bom currently defines all of the non-overlapping dependencies with the wildfly bom.

We should introduce another bom that defines the overlapping dependencies used by the core project - this includes things like vfs, jboss-logging, the javax api jars, marshalling, infinispan, etc. We should also substitute usage of the jboss javax jars for whatever the vanilla replacements are.

We should then be able to cut ties with wildfly boms in the core project.

For connector development convenience we could also introduce a bom-wildfly which imports both the teiid-bom and the wildfly-parent.