Transaction stickiness causing ejb connect exception

when using transaction stickiness in a cluster, calls are failing with the exception below, only when stickiness is turned off the issue is resolved, but then the application is exposed to scenarios such as diamond and Transaction Failover After Invocation Reached Server.

javax.ejb.EJBException: java.lang.RuntimeException: java.lang.RuntimeException: Current transaction is stuck to InvokerLocator [socket://devserver:4273/?invokerDestructionDelay=5000&timeout=300000] which is no longer available. Halting invocation.
at org.jboss.ejb3.tx.Ejb3TxPolicy.handleExceptionInOurTx(Ejb3TxPolicy.java:77)
at org.jboss.aspects.tx.TxPolicy.invokeInOurTx(TxPolicy.java:83)
at org.jboss.aspects.tx.TxInterceptor$Required.invoke(TxInterceptor.java:190)
at org.jboss.aop.joinpoint.MethodInvocation.invokeNext(MethodInvocation.java:102)
at org.jboss.aspects.tx.TxPropagationInterceptor.invoke(TxPropagationInterceptor.java:76)
at org.jboss.aop.joinpoint.MethodInvocation.invokeNext(MethodInvocation.java:102)
at org.jboss.aspects.remoting.ReplicantsManagerInterceptor.invoke(ReplicantsManagerInterceptor.java:52)
at org.jboss.aop.joinpoint.MethodInvocation.invokeNext(MethodInvocation.java:102)
at org.jboss.ejb3.tx.NullInterceptor.invoke(NullInterceptor.java:42)
at org.jboss.aop.joinpoint.MethodInvocation.invokeNext(MethodInvocation.java:102)
at org.jboss.ejb3.security.Ejb3AuthenticationInterceptorv2.invoke(Ejb3AuthenticationInterceptorv2.java:182)
at org.jboss.aop.joinpoint.MethodInvocation.invokeNext(MethodInvocation.java:102)
at org.jboss.ejb3.ENCPropagationInterceptor.invoke(ENCPropagationInterceptor.java:41)
at org.jboss.aop.joinpoint.MethodInvocation.invokeNext(MethodInvocation.java:102)
at org.jboss.ejb3.BlockContainerShutdownInterceptor.invoke(BlockContainerShutdownInterceptor.java:67)
at org.jboss.aop.joinpoint.MethodInvocation.invokeNext(MethodInvocation.java:102)
at org.jboss.ejb3.core.context.CurrentInvocationContextInterceptor.invoke(CurrentInvocationContextInterceptor.java:47)
at org.jboss.aop.joinpoint.MethodInvocation.invokeNext(MethodInvocation.java:102)
at org.jboss.aspects.currentinvocation.CurrentInvocationInterceptor.invoke(CurrentInvocationInterceptor.java:67)
at org.jboss.aop.joinpoint.MethodInvocation.invokeNext(MethodInvocation.java:102)
at org.jboss.ejb3.interceptor.EJB3TCCLInterceptor.invoke(EJB3TCCLInterceptor.java:86)
at org.jboss.aop.joinpoint.MethodInvocation.invokeNext(MethodInvocation.java:102)
at org.jboss.ejb3.stateless.StatelessContainer.dynamicInvoke(StatelessContainer.java:363)
at org.jboss.ejb3.session.InvokableContextClassProxyHack._dynamicInvoke(InvokableContextClassProxyHack.java:53)
at org.jboss.aop.Dispatcher.invoke(Dispatcher.java:91)
at org.jboss.aspects.remoting.AOPRemotingInvocationHandler.invoke(AOPRemotingInvocationHandler.java:82)
at org.jboss.remoting.ServerInvoker.invoke(ServerInvoker.java:967)
at org.jboss.remoting.transport.socket.ServerThread.completeInvocation(ServerThread.java:791)
at org.jboss.remoting.transport.socket.ServerThread.processInvocation(ServerThread.java:744)
at org.jboss.remoting.transport.socket.ServerThread.dorun(ServerThread.java:548)
at org.jboss.remoting.transport.socket.ServerThread.run(ServerThread.java:234)
Caused by: java.lang.RuntimeException: java.lang.RuntimeException: Current transaction is stuck to InvokerLocator [socket://devserver:4273/?invokerDestructionDelay=5000&timeout=300000] which is no longer available. Halting invocation.