@JMX lifecycle should be tied to POJO lifecycle

The @JMX annotation should create a registration with the ServiceController that is driven by the POJO lifecycle.

i.e. when create() is invoked on the POJO lifecycle it should move the state to CREATED in the legacy ServiceController
but not re-invoke the create() method on the MBean.

Similarly when create() is invoked from the JMX console, this should reallly re-target to the POJO lifecycle.