Disabling a store puts persistence manager in invalid state if there is another store

When we disable a store, we accidentally remove all of the storeStatuses. This can cause an issue if there is another store configured besides the one that was just disabled.

The problem is that this line is always invoked https://github.com/infinispan/infinispan/blob/master/core/src/main/java/org/infinispan/persistence/manager/PersistenceManagerImpl.java#L1186 We need to optionally invoke it if the store matches the type.