Throw consistent IllegalStateException(s) for ReplicableCommand#setParameters(int commandId, Object[] parameters)

During review of https://github.com/infinispan/infinispan/pull/1369 Manik observed inconsistency in wording of IllegalStateException thrown from ReplicableCommand#setParameters(int commandId, Object[] parameters). However, upon further review it was noted that all implementations of ReplicableCommand#setParameters(int commandId, Object[] parameters) are inconsistent potentially confusing sys admins and support engineers. We should create a single consistent messages for all implementations of ReplicableCommand#setParameters(int commandId, Object[] parameters).