Domain processes don't run with -server argument

Java processes started with domain.sh/domain.bat doesn't contain '-server' argument.

This was introduced with AS7-372 (PROCESS_CONTROLLER_JAVA_OPTS HOST_CONTROLLER_JAVA_OPTS)

Scripts domain.sh/domain.bat []1 [2] are adding '-server' to JAVA_OPTS depending on JDK.
All 'JAVA_OPTS=...' in domain.sh/.bat should be changed to work with PROCESS_CONTROLLER_JAVA_OPTS and HOST_CONTROLLER_JAVA_OPTS.

[1] https://github.com/jbossas/jboss-as/blob/master/build/src/main/resources/bin/domain.sh#L84
[2] https://github.com/jbossas/jboss-as/blob/master/build/src/main/resources/bin/domain.bat#L53